Cheating has NOTHING to do with the significant other; Find out why here.

As I prepare for my show tonight; I feel the need to address women and men who think men and women who cheat is the fault of the significant other. PAUSE..Not true...When folks cheat, they cheat because they choose too. Therefore, meaning they wanted too see what the outside was hitting for. Cheating has NOTHING to do with the significant other, it has to do with the cheaters self esteem, personaldesires, lack ofs, and needs of the one who cheated. And no, no one can compete with it. Stay n deal or leave. Women and men should never ask what they could have done differently bc frankly, it has nothing to do with you. The bigger issue is the dishonesty. Why lie? I believe the truth may not be liked but it provides options. Whereas a lie is deliberately deceitful. Folks might be surprised if they shared their true feelings...She or he might want to test the waters elsewhere too but no most don't want to take the chance or hear that response.