Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace?

Many ladies get an engagement ring for Christmas -- and couples begin to plan their wedding.   This year I did a wedding ceremony for a couple who wanted to have a very traditional wedding ceremony - including speak now or forever hold your peace and what God has joined together, let no man put asunder.   I will go into some of the reasons why these words were originally spoken and ask some questions to see if perhaps we might start to say some of these traditional words again!!!