Who taught you to hate yourself?

What are so many blacks in recognition of their African Roots and at the same time have lots of hatred for those same Roots. And any African born Black has those same "House Nigga" tendencies as their American born cousins are just as hateful towards their roots and history. On both sides of the Atlantic blacks are uniting but some blacks are still engaged in those destructive behaviors and are willing to deny the DNA ties Africans on the continent have with those in Blacks in America share.